Valentine’s Day, was quite unique this year, and our favorite stars showcased and celebrated their love and appreciation for the wonderful day that is, 14 February.
Khanyi Mbau , the wonderful Queen…took to Instagram and gave the public a shock! Along with her new handsome hubby on Sunday, sharing pictures of them and a wonderful video on her Instagram feed. “And this is how we shut down Valentine’s Day” she commented.
The beautiful personality Pearl Thusi celebrated her Valentine’s Day in Thailand. Although she was not with her lover, she gave thanks to him for the pretty flowers and gifts when she went Live on Instagram…dancing and happy. She indeed is a wonderful soul.
Your FAVS and more other personalities shut down feeds on Valentine’s Day. They ultimately closed the show. As we look forward to the next Valentine’s Day…keep showing people love, as love is a beautiful and wonderful thing to experience.
Males and Females experience the world differently. It is
quite evident how each sex performs in different fields and especially on
People may have many theories as to, and I would have theories of my own on as to why its apparent that the women are killing the Social Media Game more than men.
Let me challenge you for a second. You can either do it
right now or at a later stage after reading this article. Head onto your
Instagram and go to your followers list, you’d notice that approximately 70-90%
of your followers depending on how big your account is or maybe if you may know
persons either close to you or persons you know on social media that wants to be
an Influencer with everything they got, on Instagram specifically, have an
attractive feed, they have a few passion, but they do not have many followers
to ultimately qualify to be an influencer or even a micro-influencer, but they
want to be that person that has millions of followers because you love food,
love to travel or love travel photography.
Unfortunately, that industry is brutal to men. Its evident
that sexism exist in the real world, and that there is a huge pay gap with
women and men. In the real world, for years it is better to be a man than it is
to be a woman.
This Is A Bad Issue, do not get me wrong, frankly it needs
to be resolved in the real world, however if you a male and you want to become
an influencer, you have little to no chance to be one because looking at the
state of the influencer market today, it is dominated by females.
Females are better at making communities and creating content…the
statement is arguable yes, but that is just the way it is. Females are super extraordinary
in the influencer market to-date. They dominating social media as is. Men just
can’t be travel, fashion influencers as successfully as females.
It is not easy to escalate as an influencer on Instagram unless you have a huge amount of content to post with the perfect balance in aesthetics, constant collaborations and high-quality content.
Examples of female influencers, that are increasingly upcoming and are already crushing it on Instagram.
Yes, there are male influencers who are crushing it, but if
you look at your social media, those males are either really good at fashion, fashion
streetwear or photography. They are just specialists at style and fashion. Some
can be really rich, constantly networking with rich people, hanging around
beautiful girls/models and collaborating with them or even getting shout outs.
Being an Artist perhaps.
You have to be really good at something in real life to be a
successful influencer and crush the market. You have to work extra hard to be
noticed and some will not even get noticed as quick as they expect, but for
females, the good news is, if you want to be an influencer, you do not
necessarily have to be good at something in real life, the industry is just
built that way. You can be good at social media and succeed at this life thing.
Males can dominate as well, but it is a uphill battle to get
there and dominate as fast as they want to. Females dominate the influencing
market and they surely can dominate the real world as well.
If you are looking for unfiltered and mercilessly legitimate relationship advice while laughing through the frustration and the pain, Lemii Loco is the guy you need to ask.
Lemii Loco who’s birth name is ,Molemo Lehoko, was born in Rustenburg and bred in the streets of Soweto. His parents only moved to Soweto two years after his birth.
When he is not helping fans solve their relationship problems while simultaneously cheering them up, he is making them feel like they are in a happy feet storyline with his D.J skills and he is also content creator.
“If you ever ask me a question, I will give you an honest answer”
His intensely unfiltered advice and his popular phrase “Do you have money?” left many laughing at their pain and yearning for more. The funny relationship adviser has stolen the hearts of a lot of people. His Instagram relationship Q and As are shared on many social media platforms.
The self – accredited relationship expert started serving advice earlier this year, not long before the South African COVID-19 lockdown. It began as nothing more than him enjoying and putting to use the Instagram Q & A feature. Ever since then his social media following has grown tremendously.
His videos have proliferated online and he found fans across the South African border, some from Zimbabwe, Kenya, Botswana, New York, Canada, Germany and with the largest fan base found to be in Namibia.
He has since worked with the South African writer and comedian Lesego Tlhabi, who is best known for creating the character Coconut Kelz on the Eskort South Africa’s YouTube channel.
The multi-talented comedian has partnered with a number of brands, one of them being the best selling distilled spirit brand in the world, Smirnoff.
The social media figure has recently been nominated for the African Social Entertainment Awards for favorite Social Media Comedian.
After a fan suggested to Lemii to host an event and name it after his popular phrase ‘Do you have money‘. He did exactly that, so far he has hosted two ,Do you have money, events were he invites individuals who enjoy his content to meet up in one space and converse.
“It’s all about getting together” he added
Lemii gave voice that as influencers they tap into a lot more issues than they are aware of, either being social issues or otherwise and that is not something one takes for granted.
“Whenever God gives you a platform where you can be influential in peoples lives, you can’t do anything with that but do good”
He emphasized that he wants to be one with his fans hence he tries by all means to make his event, Do you have money, more than just people coming to support a star. He wants to fabricate a environment where one doesn’t only feel welcome but where everyone can offer support to one another.
As much as the expert loves giving advice he also has appreciates receiving it, either being from fans, friends or even haters.
“Whatever advice people give or share, I take into consideration”
“I am a very socially awkward person and shy” he disclosed
Some of the misconceptions about the comedian is that he is stuck up or very rude which he assures the public that that is extremely inaccurate.
He has recently started a YouTube channel where he will be showing his fans his versatility when it comes to content creation. He will be inviting fans into this personal space and collaborating with other social media influencers and other creatives.
The multi-talented creative divulged that, the next goal for him is to penetrate the acting world, as he is a trained actor and participated in a lot of theater work while growing up.
“Entertainment has always been a passion of mine”
The raising star told NoChillMzansi this from his living room through a zoom interview, where he shoots countless Q and As that earned him his unprecedented level of fame.
Celebrity and media personality Tbo Touch received a lot of resilience following his recent social media comments about immigrants crossing the South African borders illegally, the 19th of November, on Twitter.
The masses at large bombarded the social media platform
after he commented on a video post by which the prime time news anchor Cathy
Mohlahlana, of Newzroom Afrika posted, revealing how many immigrants entered
the country illegally.
The video clearly shows how a small group of people emerged from the bushes, running towards minibuses parked by the side of the road.
One of the listeners on SAfm sent us this video taken near the Komatipoort border post, of people crossing the border illegally into SA. pic.twitter.com/YzhHiGcqS2
Tbo Touch came across the post, and shared his view, in his response to Mohlahlana, he wrote: “Cathy, we have Home Affairs throwing toys all over the place on #Bushiri when they know we have open borders. There are 4,5million illegal immigrants in SA with no finger prints, valid identity at all.”
See his response below:
Cathy, we have Home Affairs throwing toys all over the place on #Bushiri when they know we have open borders. There are 4,5million illegal immigrants in SA with no finger prints, valid identity at all. https://t.co/NURNaijqnk
After his response, the masses took to the platform, describing and labelling the media personality as “Xenophobic”, whilst a few applauded at him, by noting that the South African Government is not doing enough to protect it`s citizens by handling the borders issue. Tbo Touch then reacted once more, highlighting what had occurred with him and his wife Nandi Molefe during a terrible robbery incident.
Those who say I’m Xenophobic can all jump. I’ve been robbed Gun-point with Thuli on her 3 trimester almost sustained a miscarriage and for 3 years I was told by @SAPoliceService forensic they have too many similar cases committed by untraceable foreign criminals https://t.co/Ue0wDh886p
Furthermore, the star tweeted that we should not misinterpret Xenophobia and Patriotism. In this tweet, he paints a clear distinction of what his action against the initial tweet means and that everybody must be proud of their nationality!
Can we please not misinterpret Xenophobia & Patriotism. Being Pro-South African don’t mean you’re Xenophobic. Everybody must be proud of their nationality! The highest office in society is citizenship. 🇿🇦
People will hate. They will be there to judge and criticize you. They always have. It literally does not matter what you do, whether you post a picture of yourself on social media, behave differently from them, how you dress, how you speak, how you address certain factors in this reality, they will have an opinion on every single thing. People will share their negativity, just to satisfy a need within them. They do not like to see you thrive and achieve things that they cannot, so instead they splash some negativity on a positive thing.
“Your opinion is not my reality.”- Steve Maraboli
We allow other’s opinions and perceptions to define us and control how we do things, but at the end of the day, that is just the role of society. The constant judgement and attacks, can be compared to an army of ants, seeking for something to feed off on. It’s a simple comparison but an effective one, that will enable you to give you a better image of how the masses baseless opinions is being thrown at you.
Opinions have no purpose, other than to hurt or harm you. Other’s
opinions of you does not matter. They have no sense in the entire being that
you are. They do not matter. It can be hard to not be triggered emotionally by hurtful
opinions, but you a human being. You have emotions just as the person next to
you or in your personal life.
You would agree that it is easy to think that those opinions
do not matter and that they do not define you, right? Yes, it is quite hard to
put in practice.
Keep your head up high. Turn the other cheek. Do not give
other the pleasure of insulting you. Do not allow their irrational energy shove
you down a slippery slope and stir you into a hot boiling bowl of anger.
An rating scale of approval cannot define your self-worth. No matter what inconsistent, irrational trolls can say about you, it does not define your self-worth. They do not know what you have been through. Have they been in your life? Do they know your story? Their opinions do not matter. Trust yourself: You know yourself. There is not rating of approval in this broad universe that can determine how you should act, create or be yourself.
Opinions make you depressed and sombre. That is enough reason
to never pay attention to other’s judgements and opinions about you. There is
no doubt in the world that you would want to go around feeling melancholic. Do
not try to please everyone with your decisions. People do not care about
you! It is improbable to please someone with your decision, because no matter
what decision you make in your life, someone is going to be upset and have an
opinion on how you can change your direction on the decision you made and they
will judge you effortlessly, on what you do for your career, social media,
education, children, the places you go to or even who you associate yourself
If they speak about you behind your back, they your secret group of fans.
Do not cater for other people’s opinions. You do not have an additional pen and notebook for every single being out there to address their opinions of your decisions.
You only have one notebook and pen for your OWN views. Other’s opinions do not matter.