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How Khanyi Mbau, Mihlali, & More SA Stars Celebrated Valentine’s Day

Happy Valentine’s Day


Benjamin Gentles | February 2021 | Nochillinmzansi

Valentine’s Day, was quite unique this year, and our favorite stars showcased and celebrated their love and appreciation for the wonderful day that is, 14 February.

Khanyi Mbau , the wonderful Queen…took to Instagram and gave the public a shock! Along with her new handsome hubby on Sunday, sharing pictures of them and a wonderful video on her Instagram feed. “And this is how we shut down Valentine’s Day” she commented.

The beautiful and sexy Content Creator Mihlali Ndamase made Instagram and Twitter feeds explode after she shared her Valentine’s Day pictures. She made a mark on the 14th, without a doubt!

The beautiful personality Pearl Thusi celebrated her Valentine’s Day in Thailand. Although she was not with her lover, she gave thanks to him for the pretty flowers and gifts when she went Live on Instagram…dancing and happy. She indeed is a wonderful soul.

Nadia Nakai shared some amazing pictures of her on Instagram, showcasing how she will be celebrating her day.

Now! This esthetic, hyped Content Creator Lasizwe Dambuza shared how he spent his Valentine’s day, finally showing his fans and South Africa his companion. Here is how he spent his Valentine’s Day…

The wonderful Ayanda Thabethe shared on Instagram a picture of herself, asking her fans what they will be up to on Valentine’s Day.

Your FAVS and more other personalities shut down feeds on Valentine’s Day. They ultimately closed the show. As we look forward to the next Valentine’s Day…keep showing people love, as love is a beautiful and wonderful thing to experience.

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REASONS WHY FEMALES ARE DOMINATING THE INFLUENCING MARKET MORE THAN MALES

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Benjamin Gentles | January 2021 | Nochillinmzansi

Males and Females experience the world differently. It is quite evident how each sex performs in different fields and especially on Social Media.

People may have many theories as to, and I would have theories of my own on as to why its apparent that the women are killing the Social Media Game more than men.

Let me challenge you for a second. You can either do it right now or at a later stage after reading this article. Head onto your Instagram and go to your followers list, you’d notice that approximately 70-90% of your followers depending on how big your account is or maybe if you may know persons either close to you or persons you know on social media that wants to be an Influencer with everything they got, on Instagram specifically, have an attractive feed, they have a few passion, but they do not have many followers to ultimately qualify to be an influencer or even a micro-influencer, but they want to be that person that has millions of followers because you love food, love to travel or love travel photography.

Unfortunately, that industry is brutal to men. Its evident that sexism exist in the real world, and that there is a huge pay gap with women and men. In the real world, for years it is better to be a man than it is to be a woman.

This Is A Bad Issue, do not get me wrong, frankly it needs to be resolved in the real world, however if you a male and you want to become an influencer, you have little to no chance to be one because looking at the state of the influencer market today, it is dominated by females.

Females are better at making communities and creating content…the statement is arguable yes, but that is just the way it is. Females are super extraordinary in the influencer market to-date. They dominating social media as is. Men just can’t be travel, fashion influencers as successfully as females.

It is not easy to escalate as an influencer on Instagram unless you have a huge amount of content to post with the perfect balance in aesthetics, constant collaborations and high-quality content.

Examples of female influencers, that are increasingly upcoming and are already crushing it on Instagram.

Yes, there are male influencers who are crushing it, but if you look at your social media, those males are either really good at fashion, fashion streetwear or photography. They are just specialists at style and fashion. Some can be really rich, constantly networking with rich people, hanging around beautiful girls/models and collaborating with them or even getting shout outs. Being an Artist perhaps.

You have to be really good at something in real life to be a successful influencer and crush the market. You have to work extra hard to be noticed and some will not even get noticed as quick as they expect, but for females, the good news is, if you want to be an influencer, you do not necessarily have to be good at something in real life, the industry is just built that way. You can be good at social media and succeed at this life thing.

Males can dominate as well, but it is a uphill battle to get there and dominate as fast as they want to. Females dominate the influencing market and they surely can dominate the real world as well.

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funny, self-accredited relationship expert Lemii loco on working with coconut kelz, award nomination and more

If you are looking for unfiltered and mercilessly legitimate relationship advice while laughing through the frustration and the pain, Lemii Loco is the guy you need to ask.


Lemii Loco who’s birth name is ,Molemo Lehoko, was born in Rustenburg and bred in the streets of Soweto. His parents only moved to Soweto two years after his birth. 


When he is not helping fans solve their relationship problems while simultaneously cheering them up, he is making them feel like they are in a happy feet storyline with his D.J skills and he is also content creator.


“If you ever ask me a question, I will give you an honest answer”


His intensely unfiltered advice and his popular phrase “Do you have money?” left many laughing at their pain and yearning for more. The funny relationship adviser has stolen the hearts of a lot of people. His Instagram relationship Q and As are shared on many social media platforms.


The self – accredited relationship expert started serving advice earlier this year, not long before the South African COVID-19  lockdown. It began as nothing more than him enjoying and putting to use the Instagram Q & A feature. Ever since then his social media following has grown tremendously.


His videos have proliferated online and he found fans across the South African border, some from Zimbabwe, Kenya, Botswana, New York, Canada, Germany and with the largest fan base found to be  in Namibia.

Lemii Loco on set with Coconut Kelz


He has since worked with the South African writer and comedian Lesego Tlhabi, who is best known for creating the character Coconut Kelz on the Eskort South Africa’s YouTube channel.


The multi-talented comedian has partnered with a number of brands, one of them being the best selling distilled spirit brand in the world, Smirnoff.


The social media figure has recently been nominated for the African Social Entertainment Awards for favorite Social Media Comedian.


After a fan suggested to Lemii to host an event and name it after his popular phrase ‘Do you have money‘. He did exactly that, so far he has hosted two ,Do you have money, events were he invites individuals who enjoy his content to meet up in one space and converse.


“It’s all about getting together” he added


Lemii gave voice that as influencers they tap into a lot more issues than they are aware of, either being social issues or otherwise and that is not something one takes for granted.


“Whenever God gives you a platform where you can be influential in peoples lives, you can’t do anything with that but do good”


He emphasized that he wants to be one with his fans hence he tries by all means to make his event, Do you have money, more than just people coming to support a star. He wants to fabricate a environment where one doesn’t only feel welcome but where everyone can offer support to one another.


As much as the expert loves giving advice he also has appreciates receiving it, either being from fans, friends or even haters.


“Whatever advice people give or share, I take into consideration”


“I am a very socially awkward person and shy” he disclosed


Some of the misconceptions about the comedian is that he is stuck up or very rude which he assures the public that that is extremely inaccurate.


He has recently started a YouTube channel where he will be showing his fans his versatility when it comes to content creation. He will be inviting fans into this personal space and collaborating with other social media influencers and other creatives.


The multi-talented creative divulged that, the next goal for him is to penetrate the acting world, as he is a trained actor and participated in a lot of theater work while growing up.


“Entertainment has always been a passion of mine” 


The raising star told NoChillMzansi this from his living room through a zoom interview, where he shoots countless Q and As that earned him his unprecedented level of fame.

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Tbo Touch reacts to claims against him being Xenophobic.

Photo: Instagram


Benjamin Gentles | December 2020 | Nochillinmzansi

Celebrity and media personality Tbo Touch received a lot of resilience following his recent social media comments about immigrants crossing the South African borders illegally, the 19th of November, on Twitter.

The masses at large bombarded the social media platform after he commented on a video post by which the prime time news anchor Cathy Mohlahlana, of Newzroom Afrika posted, revealing how many immigrants entered the country illegally.

The video clearly shows how a small group of people emerged from the bushes, running towards minibuses parked by the side of the road.

Tbo Touch came across the post, and shared his view, in his response to Mohlahlana, he wrote: “Cathy, we have Home Affairs throwing toys all over the place on #Bushiri when they know we have open borders. There are 4,5million illegal immigrants in SA with no finger prints, valid identity at all.”

See his response below:

After his response, the masses took to the platform, describing and labelling the media personality as “Xenophobic”, whilst a few applauded at him, by noting that the South African Government is not doing enough to protect it`s citizens by handling the borders issue. Tbo Touch then reacted once more, highlighting what had occurred with him and his wife Nandi Molefe during a terrible robbery incident.

Furthermore, the star tweeted that we should not misinterpret Xenophobia and Patriotism. In this tweet, he paints a clear distinction of what his action against the initial tweet means and that everybody must be proud of their nationality!

Has the conversation on Twitter sparked a sense of division and a perception that Africans will not get along?

Will this conversation be ongoing? Will something be done to protect the borders of South Africa and bring people together peacefully sorting out any woes that this very continent is facing?

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Its Up To You: People’s Opinions Don’t Matter.

Many different people offer their opinions about you and you should not care!


Benjamin Gentles | December 2020 | Nochillinmzansi

People will hate. They will be there to judge and criticize you. They always have. It literally does not matter what you do, whether you post a picture of yourself on social media, behave differently from them, how you dress, how you speak, how you address certain factors in this reality, they will have an opinion on every single thing. People will share their negativity, just to satisfy a need within them. They do not like to see you thrive and achieve things that they cannot, so instead they splash some negativity on a positive thing.

“Your opinion is not my reality.”- Steve Maraboli

We allow other’s opinions and perceptions to define us and control how we do things, but at the end of the day, that is just the role of society. The constant judgement and attacks, can be compared to an army of ants, seeking for something to feed off on. It’s a simple comparison but an effective one, that will enable you to give you a better image of how the masses baseless opinions is being thrown at you.

Opinions have no purpose, other than to hurt or harm you. Other’s opinions of you does not matter. They have no sense in the entire being that you are. They do not matter. It can be hard to not be triggered emotionally by hurtful opinions, but you a human being. You have emotions just as the person next to you or in your personal life.

Walk away from negative opinions and perceptions people have of you.

You would agree that it is easy to think that those opinions do not matter and that they do not define you, right? Yes, it is quite hard to put in practice.

Keep your head up high. Turn the other cheek. Do not give other the pleasure of insulting you. Do not allow their irrational energy shove you down a slippery slope and stir you into a hot boiling bowl of anger.

An rating scale of approval cannot define your self-worth. No matter what inconsistent, irrational trolls can say about you, it does not define your self-worth. They do not know what you have been through. Have they been in your life? Do they know your story? Their opinions do not matter. Trust yourself: You know yourself. There is not rating of approval in this broad universe that can determine how you should act, create or be yourself.

Opinions make you depressed and sombre. That is enough reason to never pay attention to other’s judgements and opinions about you. There is no doubt in the world that you would want to go around feeling melancholic. Do not try to please everyone with your decisions. People do not care about you! It is improbable to please someone with your decision, because no matter what decision you make in your life, someone is going to be upset and have an opinion on how you can change your direction on the decision you made and they will judge you effortlessly, on what you do for your career, social media, education, children, the places you go to or even who you associate yourself with.

If they speak about you behind your back, they your secret group of fans.

Do not cater for other people’s opinions. You do not have an additional pen and notebook for every single being out there to address their opinions of your decisions.

You only have one notebook and pen for your OWN views. Other’s opinions do not matter.

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