Communicate even if it’s hard. Couples nowadays make a mistake of ignoring their partner and expecting them to understand what’s wrong when they’re not letting them know there’s a problem in the first place.

Talk about your feelings and open up. Don’t shove it inside and act like there’s nothing wrong. Are you feeling jealous and insecure? Let your partner know. Had a bad day at work? Let your partner know. Did your partner do something that you didn’t like? Let him/her know. The key is to be honest with your feelings and talk about it. If you can’t communicate effectively, the understanding will dissolve and you’ll be left with unnecessary fights that’ll lead to even more emotional distress.

Look, your partner cannot magically read your mind. Stop expecting them to “figure out” what’s the problem when you’re not even telling them in the first place. How do you expect to get taken care of and be understood when you’re confusing the hell out of them with your actions? That’s why good communication is essential for healthy relationships. You both have to be comfortable listening to each other. Talk about what’s bothering you. Be honest with yourself and open up. That way, your partner will understand you from a rational and emotional standpoint.

Be clear and transparent with what you have to say. Don’t interrupt your partner when he/she is talking. Remember, patience is key and you have to be willing to listen carefully and with open ears in order to be understood. This way, both of you will avoid misunderstandings that could lead to further resentment, conflict, and anger.

Talk about it and you’ll feel better.

So…. your man tells you he is not planning on having kids or getting married anytime soon as he is still sorting out his life… he tells u he wants to have his second degree, a proper house, and a bigger car first…. u sit there smiling with just a birth certificate thinking you’ll be the wife?

With the little he has, u ask for Brazilian hair and timberland… he goes to work and goes straight to class after work…he leaves you in pyjamas n finds u in the same pyjamas.. while he studies u watch generations and isibaya…

He comes back home to find pap and chicken in the microwave everyday… the house is clean and his clothes ironed… the only serious conversation yall have is about the type of groceries u guys need.

The only advice u give him is “babe you need to buy new socks, the ones u bought last time are torn” nothing intelligent comes out of ur mouth..no plans of making your own life better…yes you are pretty…no doubt about that!….so is every second girl passing by 

Do u realize something… u not doing anything a maid cant do…. he’s gonna finish school and the first thing he’s gonna do is REPLACE HIS MAID cause he can now afford to pay one and have a PROPER WIFE/GF.

That’s when we gonna hear your famous last words “I was with him thru thick and thin when he had nothing, now that he is successful he thinks I am nothing”

Yes, you are right, you have always been NOTHING but a maid to him. .Empower urself to be the woman your man wants to be with…a woman who would be able to carry the whole family if anything happens to his job or his health!!!

TRUTH IN PLAIN SIGHT

Most of y’all relationships don’t last because you fail to make your men happy by simply doing priceless things, small things count big in relationships.

Most of ladies who doesn’t cook, who doesn’t clean and suck dicks always asking where are the good men at , Listen , good men just got finished eating home-cooked meal, now they’re relaxing in a clean house, and they’re about to get their dick* sucked, Your man is busy eating KFC you forced him to buy, inside an untidy place . No sucking, no nothing …

Ladies , Cook food for you man , stop being lazy and make your man buy food every time you visit. Ask him if he has groceries you want to come and cook him a nice meal . Stop being like kids in relationship asking him to buy nandos or pizzas every time . Be a woman not a girl . Guys listen , if every time she visits you , you need to spend money . Stop dating her , she’s a kid . You make him spend more than R400 every time you visit , how much is he gonna spend a day if he’s gonna marry you? He ain’t gonna marry you trust me .

Suck your man’s *dick* like your ex is watching , suck his *dick* when he’s stressed, let him feel how wet you are at random places , send him naked pics while he’s at work. Men love being sucked, a head is like a flower to a woman . The love you have for shoes , is the same love guys have for a head . If your man have to ask you for a head , you’re failing as a woman . Ladies who suck their men’s dick* without being asked are the ones getting wifed up . Initiate as a woman .

You wonder why all these girls you call *SLUTS* are being wifed up and you’re sitting at home with that scarf on your head looking like Sanamastupid . You can’t just fuck* while having *sex* only . You have to *fuck* his mind 24 hours a day . Isn’t wrong to be a bad girl to your man . The reason behind all your heartbreaks is because you so boring and you SUCK at being a girlfriend.

You can be a leader at your church and a very well Christian mannered girl , but be bad for your man in the bedroom. Stop being SanamaBoring girlfriend. As long as he’s the only guy you are bad at , even God will understand. Be a freak to your man and make him get hard whenever he thinks of you . Make him hard without even touching him . Be powerful like that .

I’m telling you , there are girls out there who are capable of taking your man . You could be fleek/cute from head to toes but if you still acting like a kid in your relationship. A girl who looks like aifheli will come get your man and get wifed up . You’ll end up saying “But she’s ugly thou ” … While you forgetting that aifheli knows how to play her game .

NOTE : BE YOUR MAN’S FREAK , SUPPORT HIM AND ALWAYS MAKE HIM HAPPY IN ALL WAYS . SHARE THE POST !!